Gender Roles

I love it when I need something and it is given to me before I need it.  Such it was with the David Platt quote I used in yesterday's blog. 

I was in a conversation that led to gender roles within the church.  Now, the congregations I've attended have had pretty strict rules on what men or women could or couldn't do but also had cases where there was total bewilderment on who the role belonged to or what it should look like.  Good stuff, right?  Oh, how I imagine Satan gets all giddy when we can be pulled off the effort of seeking and saving the lost by debating with other believers.  So, I asked the question similar to what Platt asked.  What happens when you ask God to help you understand your role and he answers you?  Will you accept the answer?

I'm guilty of asking God for guidance and when I don't like the guidance I just ignore it.  God's OK with that because he can see a million moves ahead of me and he's prepared for the choices I make...but that doesn't mean I should ignore God when he speaks.  I wonder if much of our battles about gender roles and the like are more about what God says (or purposefully doesn't say) and our desire being in conflict instead of accepting what he has said (or purposefully left unsaid) and doing his will whatever the cost.  I wonder...

Grace and peace to you.